Why Chemistry Isn’t Enough

Ever been here? You get into a relationship, fall head over heels, and then the relationship ends abruptly, or ends badly due to infidelity, or abuse, or because he doesn’t want to commit. And then, you are left confused because “we had so much chemistry!” Chemistry is awesome. It’s an amazing feeling. And it’s a vital part of a relationship. …

Why Successful Women Attract Toxic Men

Ever meet a woman who has gotten her life in every area – except her relationships? She has great friends, and is killing it in her career. But she’s single, and none of the men she dates treat her well. Or, she’s married, but she’s constantly complaining about her husband, even as everything in her life improves. Maybe that woman …

The Truth About Waiting Until Marriage

Can I bring up the elephant in the room? The thing that’s never mentioned in the comments on my Facebook or Instagram. The thing that most Christian women don’t want to admit to. The thing that women bring up a LOT when they get on private calls with me. “I’m tired of being single and waiting until marriage.” And if it’s not that, it’s… “I tried and failed to wait until marriage, and …

How to Use Social Media to Attract Good Men

No matter how much you’d like to deny it, appearances matter. And one of the quickest ways to kill your chances of a great relationship is not being concerned with how you look on social media. Think about it. How often do get a date, and immediately go search for the guy’s Facebook or Instagram profile? How often do you …

Finding Men with Money

Where Are the Men with Money?

Feeling like fewer people are getting married nowadays? It’s not just your imagination. According to the Pew Research Center, about half of American adults today are married. That’s down from about 60% ten years, and way down from about 72% of Americans in 1960. And a study from Cornell University suggests that it’s all about the dollar bills. Cornell looked at …