In this episode of CHRISTIANISH Podcast, Dating Coach and Hypnotherapist Keshia Rice breaks down what it really means to decenter men. While social media is full of talk about rejecting relationships, many women are still unknowingly making men the center of their lives. Keshia explains why true decentering isn’t about avoiding love—it’s about making yourself the priority and only allowing relationships that align with your values.
Keshia shares:
✨ The one question you need to ask yourself to stop chasing relationships
✨ How unhealed wounds (validation, security, father figures) shape your dating patterns
✨ Why balancing your masculine and feminine energy changes everything
✨ The key to attracting a healthy, fulfilling relationship—without settling
When you give yourself what you’ve been seeking, love becomes a choice, not a necessity.
Listen to the full episode on Keshia’s website or subscribe to Christian-ish Podcast on iTunes and Spotify.
Ready to identify your unhealthy relationship patterns and heal them once and for all? Schedule a call with Keshia https://calendly.com/keshiarice/cherished
More Resources:
- Take Back Your Power: A Journal to End Self-Sabotage https://keshiarice.gumroad.com/l/selfsabotage?layout=profile
- Ditch the Deadweight – Heal from a Breakup in Six Weeks https://keshiarice.gumroad.com/l/breakupguide?layout=profile
- Explore expert coaching and empowering courses by Keshia on Gumroad.
- Stay connected with Keshia on Instagram: instagram.com/keshiarice.
- Heal from past relationship trauma by booking a consultation: Schedule here.
- Need extra support? Get 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp using Keshia’s special link: BetterHelp.